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Chat about a loaded theme that no one wants to speak about, that’s it. Funny thing, affairs have been going on from the beginning of the world. Extramarital affairs can be filled with evils, cause sadness, and other problems. Also you have to wrap your brain around all the other issues, there’s that truth and openness matter, funds, age difference, spiritual background, guilt, and on and on. I expect there will be some strong opinions about some of this.

For the purpose of this article I should define an affair as a long term, maybe months long relationship of a sexual nature between two people of whom one or both are married to other wives/husbands, dating married men.

Why do married people have affairs? There are as many reasons as there are man seeking woman for affair. I think mostly though it is only the human state, the need for love, belonging, to be wanted and cared for, the caring for others and wanting to be loved and loved. Here are a few explanations I have run across.

Physically we as humans are all sexual creatures. Nature has us set up to reproduce, to have sex. Sex is pleasurable and exciting, and sex makes us flee the world for a brief period of time. This euphoria exists for whatever amount of time we are able to keep the adrenalin levels high enough. Somebody can switch the longing on and off, some are good at controlling it and others are so-so at best. Though we all have it, young and old, able bodied and not so able. It is the Human condition. For some of us it is the sex act itself that drives us. For some of us it is the excitement of the chase. For some of us it is the seduction, for some it is the caring for another individual, for some it is the longing to be appreciatedloved, for some it is the total romance thing. These needs and yearnings can be so strong they prevail over the taboos people has erected against extramarital affairs. For many people the yearnings will defeat their worries and make them risk the wrath of not only their relatives, but the public too. So why, what is the mechanism?

Sex Addicts, possibly some of us are. Sex is extremely pleasant, better then drugs, a natural high. If you are in this group of biologically obsessed sex addicts and can find away to have sex and not injure your family or anyone else? You would need to minimize the threat you are taking. If you have the feeling that a good affair is one that is beneficial to everyone, then good luck.

No love at home, or no romance. I suppose this is the largest group, gigantic really. There are many couples whose marital relationships is over, except they feel happy in the manner they exist, and upsetting the extended families is not on their list of things they wish to do. You love your other half but there is no romance. Also there are the children to think about. Your finances are so entangled. You need the medical insurance, and so on. There are a lot of reasons to be as a family besides love and sex.

Physical reasons, there are some people who can not have sex. They have physical reasons that prevent them implementing the sex performance, at least not with their spouse. An extra-marital affair at times solves the difficulty while keeping the marriage intact.

Ignoring, sadly this is a frequent reason I fear. One or the other, usually the gentleman is sexually neglecting his female for a tones of reasons. As a man I truly am grateful to you guys neglecting your wives and making them obtainable to us guys of romance, making them “hot wives” Though I still think it is despicable that you are neglectful. Then there is the spouse who is neglectful until the wife or husband has an affair, then they condemn them for doing so, when they where the catalyst. Those who neglect, then condemn, are not only neglectful, but evil.

Something is just misplaced in the marriage, I can not put my finger on it, but its not there. Perhaps its romance that is missing, maybe it is a lack of love, maybe caring is not here, maybe it is the intimacy, maybe neglect. Maybe we have simply developed distantly, our common concerns diverged. Could be it is that what I want, and what I want to do the rest of my ages, is conflicting of what you want. Could be I just do not know what I want from the marriage anymore. Could be, just maybe I miss that sensation that when I am with you, it just feels right.

The ultimate reason people give is, they look for the excitement that is missing and so very much longed for.

There are other reasons, the feeling of power, to run off, for financial gain, for revenge and so on. I am sure there are more reasons why people have affairs then these. I only stop because if this gets too long no one will read it.

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